I had this at my wedding - well actually got the whole congregation to recite it like you would a prayer. It was lovely!

May the sun bring you new energies by day;
May the moon softly restore you by night.
May the rain wash away any worries you may have
And the breeze blow new strength into your being.
And then, all the days of your life,
May you walk gently through the world and know its beauty.
Now you will feel no rain/ for each of you will be shelter for the other;
Now you will feel no cold / for each of you will be warmth to the other;
Now there will be no more loneliness;
Now you are two persons / but there is only one life before you.
Go now to your dwelling / to enter into your life together;
And may your days be good / and long upon the earth.

Posted by: Rachel | November 24, 2006 5:31 PM

we had a civil ceremony too. This one was lovely to start everything off.
Romantic -but not too slushy. Hope the day goes well

On Your Wedding Day
Author Unknown

Today is a day you will always remember
The greatest in anyone's life
You'll start off the day just two people in love
And end it as Husband and Wife

It's a brand new beginning the start of a journey
With moments to cherish and treasure
And although there'll be times when you both disagree
These will surely be outweighed by pleasure

You'll have heard many words of advice in the past
When the secrets of marriage were spoken
But you know that the answers lie hidden inside
Where the bond of true love lies unbroken

So live happy forever as lovers and friends
It's the dawn of a new life for you
As you stand there together with love in your eyes
From the moment you whisper 'I do'

And with luck, all your hopes, and your dreams can be real
May success find it's way to your hearts
Tomorrow can bring you the greatest of joys
But today is the day it all starts.

Posted by: Ruth | November 24, 2006 5:53 PM

This is my favourite love poem - it just says so much about how you love someone - even though it's nearly 100 years old

The Confirmation - Edwin Muir

"Yes, yours, my love, is the right human face
I in my mind had waited for this long,
seeing the false and searching for the true,
Then found you as a traveller finds a place
Of welcome suddenly among the wrong
Valleys and rocks and twisting roads. But you,
What shall I call you? A fountain in a waste,
A well of water in a country dry,
Or anything that's honest and good, an eye
That makes the whole world bright. Your open heart,
Simple with giving, gives the primal deed,
The first good word, the blossom, the blowing seed,
The hearth, the steadfast land, the wandering sea.
Not beautiful or rare in every part.
But like yourself, as they were meant to be."

I like it, because it's truthful and special. It says that your loved one is both ordinary and miraculous, and that is how you love them. Which is a nice sentiment, I think. But maybe it's a bit old fashioned...

Posted by: Georgie | November 24, 2006 11:25 PM

At my brother's wedding, my sister read "Believe Me If All These Endearing Young Charms", by Thomas Moore.

http://www.pddoc.com/poems/believe_me_if_all_those_endearing.htm

Personally, I'm fond of Rumi. There's "This Marriage" --

May these vows and this marriage be blessed.
May it be sweet milk,
this marriage, like wine and halvah.
May this marriage offer fruit and shade
like the date palm.
May this marriage be full of laughter,
our every day a day in paradise.
May this marriage be a sign of compassion,
a seal of happiness here and hereafter.
May this marriage have a fair face and a good name,
an omen as welcome
as the moon in a clear blue sky.
I am out of words to describe
how spirit mingles in this marriage.

I also like "I Have Five Things to Say", but it's a little bit unusual and no one I know has used it....

http://www.tue.nl/esk/rumi/ihavefiv.htm

Posted by: Laura | November 25, 2006 1:55 AM

Some excellent suggestions here - thanks everyone! I'm going to have to take some time to read them all over properly... Rachel, I love the idea of having that congregation read out the poem - what a lovely idea!

Posted by: Amber | November 27, 2006 10:03 PM