Sometimes, no matter how much you try and think, you just can’t work out the right etiquette for an element of your wedding be it the wording on your stationery to setting the dress code. Fortunately, there is one book that should give you all the answers.

Debrett’s have all manner of etiquette guides but the one you’ll need is the Wedding Guide which details the correct form for literally everything and everyone involved. Pick it up at Amazon for £11.69.

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