Relationships

Flowers/Decoration, News, Relationships

The decorating battle of the newlyweds

By Elisabeth Edvardsen on April 20th, 2011

When you’re in the blissful state of newlyweds on honeymoon, day-to-day chores and other domestic trivialities seem so far away. But wedded bliss appears to be left firmly at the door for most newlyweds and no sooner than having walked across the threshold cracks begin to show if we’re to believe a new study by Crown Paints. What do people argue about you ask?

According to the survey it’s not about which school to send the future offspring to or who’s going to take out the rubbish, but how to decorate the new marital home. 6 in 10 newlyweds cite differing decorating ideas as one of the greatest causes of severe arguments between them.

The survey found that 19% of men wish to banish photos of the in-laws and their partners’ family heirloom, while for women the greatest bugbear is their partners’ games consoles and DVD/CD collections, with 30% wishing to ban them from the house altogether.

I totally understand that personality and interior design ideas can cause big clashes. If anything these new findings emphasise the importance of talking through any crazy decorating wishes and collector obsessions before tying the knot. After all you wouldn’t want to find your house filled with a massive collection of Super Mario memorabilia or have the whole flat painted in pink after you’ve got married, would you?



Relationships, Wedding Etiquette

When should you change your facebook status to ‘married’?

By AbiSilvester on July 9th, 2009

facebook_heart_c.jpgIt may seem like a trivial concern, but for many couples, from the first awkward steps of a relationship to engagement, marriage and beyond, questions arise on how and when to change the all important Facebook status – a decision that didn’t exist a cople of years ago – frequently leading to heated arguments and in one case almost to divorce and/or death.

Lauren Booth, sister of Cherie Blair, found this out the hard way when she changed her Facebook status from ‘married’ to ‘single’ in a fit of pique; only to have a blazing row with her husband who then stormed off and crashed his motorbike, presumably while still suffering the effects of ‘red mist’. He’s since come out of a coma and the couple have reunited, but it certainly brings home the significance of that one little mouse-click.

Have you chosen to share your relationship details with Facebook, or do you find it simpler just to assume that your friends know you’re with that guy who keeps turning up on your arm? Let us know in comments, and read on for some tips…

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